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Mia is such a friendly, out going little girl and she LOVES to be around people! We've been very blessed to not really have to deal with separation anxiety (from her, that is. My anxiety over the idea of leaving her for more than a few hours is a different story, ha ha! I'm not sure if I'll ever get over that?) I believe that we can mostly thank Mia's personality for avoiding the difficult stage of separation anxiety!Ever since Mia was 3 weeks old, I have worked one day a week at the salon. My parents watch her while I work, and it's been so great to get us both out of the house, and for Mia to learn that she can survive with someone else taking care of her besides me. Shortly after Mia turned one, I started taking her to the gym daycare. I stressed over this because I was so worried about the germs she would come in contact with, but the reality was that it was too cold to run outside and Mia would be around those germs at some point in life, why not now? She did great the first few weeks but we did hit a stage where she would start screaming before we even entered the daycare! It shattered my heart into a million pieces, but I kissed my screaming, thrashing baby goodbye and got my workout on. I knew that I was just a few feet away if she didn't calm down (luckily it only took her a couple minutes to forget about me and start having fun each time) and could be there the second she needed me! Luckily this phase lasted maybe two weeks? (I only take her to the daycare two times a week, so the torture was short lived!)
So obviously I don't have much experience with my own child and separation anxiety, but I have experienced it taking care of others children. The best piece of advice I can give is to just be repetitive. It's important for our kids to say goodbye to us, knowing they will see us again! They will learn what coping mechanisms they need to stay happy until mom and dad can rescue them from the big, bad care taker ;) Seriously though, kids really do learn how to cope through these situations! Even though it's killer to let them learn, it's something we have to do! But of course I totally believe that each parent knows their child better than anyone, and you know how far to push your kid and for how long :) Trust your intuition, mommas!! You're all doing an amazing job :)
July 31: Dealing with Separation Anxiety
Aug 7: Car Trip Necessities
Aug 14: Deciding when the time is right for baby #2 (and/or how to handle these questions)
Aug 21: Tricks for eating out with your toddler
Aug 28: Feeling confident as a mom (How to feel this way, Your struggle with, etc.)